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Intentional Intimacy: God and Marriage
  • April 16, 2019

And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived… (Genesis 4:1)

I never knew you; depart from me… (Matthew 7:21-23)

 

What do these two scriptures mean to you? What do they have in common?

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It’s my 30th Birthday!!!
  • April 8, 2016

NO MORE TWENTIES!!!

I think may cry!! God has been so good to me and I am ready to see what amazing things He’ll do in the 30s!! I’ve learned so many things the past 30 years and I would like to list…

30 things I’ve learned in 30 years in good humor! ENJOY!!!

  1. God is Good… IN ALL THINGS!!!
  2. Family is important!
  3. People will use you!
  4. BOLDNESS!!!
  5. I still look like a high school student! And that’s ok! #blackdontcrack
  6.  God knew what He was doing when He gave me my husband.
  7. Friends are all about quality not quantity.
  8. Everyone is not your friend!
  9. Take care of yourself. Mentally and Physically!
  10. Love yourself!!
  11. I cannot eat dairy products and that’s ok!
  12. Ask for help!!
  13. It’s ok to take a nap! I deserve it!
  14. I make glasses trendy!
  15. Forgive others.
  16. Stay away from foolish/petty people.
  17. Admitting to myself that I am flawed, but that’s ok!
  18. Debt free is the way to be!
  19. Don’t compare yourself to others! Everyone’s struggle differ!
  20. I don’t have to wear 6 inch heels everyday to be cute!
  21. My milkmaid twists are super dope!!
  22. Follow your dreams
  23. Floods may come but the latter is always greater!
  24. Invest in yourself!
  25. Smile!!
  26. Laugh often!
  27. Date nights are essential!
  28. Everyday is a lesson learned!
  29. Speak Life!
  30. Learn something new!

 

I am so blessed to join the 30s club!! God has been so good thus far and I know He will show up and show out in my 30s!! So much learning and growing ahead and I can’t wait to enjoy the ride!!IMG_20160327_095354 20140802_134518 IMG_20160103_141939 IMG_20160303_114649

When Less is More
  • August 17, 2015

Growing up I was under the impression that life was about the bigger and better things of life. Looking back, I realize the pressure to appear to be something you’re not. People will go in debt to look the part. Is it worth it?

Now that I have my own family now and our own expenses, we choose to live within our means well enjoying our lives professionally and leisurely. Living less doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t have the means to live, but you choose to live without the stress of living check to check. Get it?

For a few years now, my focus has been on my family and being debt free…  from mortgage to a piece of mind! It is easy to get wrapped up in the latest trend and way of life, but when you are focused on your goals, no trend can even tempt you! Don’t get me wrong a nice pair of shoes always makes a girl smile, but it should not be the source of your happiness.

I want my life to be full of adventure and thrills… risks and rewards. How can this happen if I’m living like the next person?! As Christians, we are to live a purposeful life. A life that is a refection of God’s love, grace and favor! When people see you, do they see Christ or the things you throw in their face? My hope is I’m seen “naked” and completely “transparent”. No one should ever question who I belong to or what I represent.

When you see me, I hope you see patience. Patience is a very complicated and “offensive” word for this day in age. We live in the express or gimme now society. No one waits for anything! My husband and I have a goal to build our first home (with our own hands) before age 33! This is unbelievable to many and some even have to offend their reason why they did something different. One person once said, To each its own” and I fond this to be valid. We never compared ourselves with the next couple, but being the light God has called us to be, some people feel the need to validate themselves. What people fail to realize, our decisions does not affect yours. You want the suburban life? Go for it!! We are godly proud of you! You want the most popular gadget?! Yessss, werk it out! But for me and my house, if we want those things, we believe we rather do it off of impulse or for popularity, but to fulfill our OWN goals! And in doing so, patience and hearing from God plays a huge role in our lives.

 

When you see me, I hope you see ingenuity. For the past year, we have been transitioning into a homestead life. Growing our own fruits, experimenting with farm animals, and farm fresh eggs, the works! Who would have thought that a couple of city kids would love the country life so much!! From big city contracts to building chicken coops and pig pens, who would have thought?! My hope is that people are encouraged to live out their dream even if it’s not very popular to do.

 

When you see me, I hope you see confidence. Being confident in your decisions can make you stand apart. People’s opinions begin to flow into your personal space. Once you are secure i your goals and livelihood, their opinions will not matter. When we decided to follow God and move to Texas, we had people praying against us…LITERALLY!! People told us they were praying against our hast decision. When we moved into a mobile home, we were told to just buy a home and worry about building one later. That may have worked for someone else, but not us! We are confident in our decision…even in our struggle.

 

When you have your life goals together, everything else doesn’t matter. Living a life of less is so relieving. Less drama, less negativity, less stress. You would think everyone’s goal is to be with less of these things, but some actually thrive on it. To each its own.

Actually, during this time of living within our means, I’ve been able to really enjoy nature. Living in the country has taught me to enjoy the beauty of God’s creation. It has also taught me to be a better steward of the things we are given. Too often we are concerned about artificial and man made fashions of this world and are easily wrapped up in fantasy that we lose focus of the things that matter…God, family and relationships. This Less is more journey is focused on those three things. I want all that God has in store for me…the true riches of life. One of my favorite songwriters (Jimmy Needham) sung,

“ Why are we so convinced a bigger audience
Is simply common sense to have?
Maybe success is measured best
By nothing less then our obedience”

If we put our focus and our energies to the Source of our being, we will enjoy the promises of God. If we stayed committed to God, our obedience, patience and long-suffering will be rewarded. What a way to be!!!!

Are you on a Less is more journey? What ways are you freeing yourself to enjoy the bounty of God’s promises for your life?

Operation: Back to School Organization
  • August 14, 2015

Yup! it’s that time again!! Checking off supply lists, early registration, buying more clothes… it’s almost a love/hate time of the year as a parent!

LOVE- your children won’t raid thee kitchen in the middle of the day. No fighting or unnecessary spills.

HATE- you have to get the kids in the habit of going to bed even though the sun is still shining… and you have to buy school supplies and clothes again.

I can only imagine how it feels to be a teacher this time of year! (I’ll know soon enough though)

 

Well, with the busyness of the new school year, moms have to step up their organization and time management game! Mine this year is set waaaayyyyy high! Now that I have FOUR children going to school this year, I need to manage my time wisely. This means having a plan for their clothes all week long!

 

My plan is to wash and prep my kids clothes during my wash day (Thursday). I will iron and hang up all (labeled) outfits for each day of the week. (Click sample to view.)

I’ll do a part two to show you my actual weekly clothing set up! Stay tuned!!!!

 

Until then, what are some ways you are preparing for Back to School?

Enjoy your kids!
  • November 29, 2013
My 5 beautiful babies are growing so fast! I am enjoying every moment of it! Despite all the multiple attitudes and arguments among them, I love every second! 
 
Here are my top 5 ways I make memories with my kiddos:
1. Taking pictures! I can’t tell you have often I reflect on our lives through pictures. Not those “put together” pictures, but those “in the moment” ones. I take monthly portrait pictures, but those random ones I love most!
2. Crafty projects. I am in the process of collecting art from my kids school and making each one a personalized scrapbook. 
3. Cooking. My daughters love to watch me cook, but when they have the chance to get their hands messy is when memories are made!
4. Outdoor fun. My husband is the expert in outdoor activities. He crafted a DIY tree swing and strapped the kids to rock climbing gear. They soared back and forth freely! 
5. Family outings. We try to plan one awesome family day out of the month. Whether it’d be out of town or spending the night in a hotel, the kids can look back and say, “Wow! My parents are awesome!”
 
What are some ways you create memories with your family!?
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2 Year Blog Anniversary
  • September 19, 2013

Happy Anniversary to me!!! Well to my blog!

I cannot believe it’s been 2 years! I began blogging because I needed an outlet. At the time, my family and I were living in a small RV (recreation vehicle) with a busted ceiling and when it rained it poured! This blog was my rescue and release when I felt like giving up and or complaining. That was our season and God gave me the outlet of blogging.

Two years later, I have grown spiritually and I am much more mature in experiences and in advice giving. I feel that God has given me my obstacles to get someone through theirs or to at least encourage them through it.

Thank you to the faithful few that support my blog. In the future, I will be more consistent in content and will talk about latest topics and trends in marriage, family, children and Christian living. My focus is on the family unit. The family unit is under attack and I am one of the fighters for the sacredness and holiness of family and marriage.

Stay tune for insightful and motivating posts!

 

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